Positivity!

Pagkatapos kong malugmok, ipinakita sakin ni God na masyado akong naka-focus sa mga nakakapag-pa-stress sakin kaya kinailangan pa niyang ipakita sa akin na kaya kong maging okay.

  1. After writing about my little drama I had, I felt better. Moreover, I felt even better when you guys commented and helped lift my spirits! No matter how simple your messages were, it was enough to make me feel better again. Nakakaiyak yung mga comforting words niyo huhuhuhu 💖💖💖
  2. I keep a copy of the Don’t Sweat The Small Stuff OMNIBUS at my work table. I usually read it every morning but it has been a few days since I last opened it. When I did, what I saw left me surprised and tearful. The title is “Light a Candle Instead of Cursing the Darkness” it says that instead of stressing ourselves out over the problems we face, it’s best to find a solution. The line that caught my attention the most was this “taking positive, solution-oriented steps toward improving a situation instead of complaining about what’s wrong. It means being more a part of the solution rather than a reminder or reinforcement of the problem” (I must remember this)

Another one is this “When we focus too much on what’s wrong, it reminds us of other things we disapprove of or wish were different, which can lead us toward feelings of discouragement and being overwhelmed”


                As much as I can, I shall try to remind myself of these techniques or strategies in order to avoid dramas and too much stress.

  1. I was informed today that some of my overtime pay will be credited on this particular cut-off. I didn’t know how to react. I will have my pang-shopping and my sister’s school fee! Muhahahahahahahahah.

Aside from those, I realized that God and the Universe is really trying to make me feel better through small things that go unnoticed. Traffic wasn’t so bad today despite the fact that traffic was 10 million times heavier yesterday in Pasig compared to most days! It was insane. So I sort of expected another grueling battle with the traffic in Pasig. Surprisingly, it was moderate and actually a bit fast moving! My coffee has just the right amount of sugar and creamer. You see, being a batanguena I like my kapeng barako black. But my mom insists on putting creamer and sugar in it para hindi daw masyadong matapang. I don’t like creamy coffees and yesterday, my coffee is way too creamy for my liking. Today, it was just perfect! Another thing is that, payroll has been credited early!! Compared to other companies, our payroll gets credited later than everyone else’s kaya hallelujah talaga sa salary kanina! HAHAHA.

Ayan na si Kyx 😂


Paepal lang 😂

Yung pinagpeprepare pa ako ni mama ng baon ☺️

Mama and Aila 😘

Lastly, siguro hinga lang ng malalim, tapos laban lang ulit!

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VIRAL

UPDATE:

I don’t think people understood what I was saying or maybe they did tapos ako yung hindi nakaintindi hahahaha. But what I am really trying to say and pointing out is how teka, ayan nafigure out ko na, how people love seeing other people’s lives go viral. How other feel the need to make something viral when they are bashing someone.

Cases in point: Kabit VS Legal Wife, Ex-BF VS Ex-GF retaliating every single detail why they finally broke up. Naniningil VS Nangutang ; Posts usually start off with “Pasikatin natin ito” shaming other people for what they have done.

Ayan shet, nagkakalinaw yung pinoproblema kong hindi ko naman dapat iniisip HAHAHAHA


In line with what I have written yesterday HERE let’s clarify the difference of social relevance, rants and parinigs over social media.

When something is of social relevance like the public must really be involved, something about a crime, a video of people being harassed in traffic, while stuck in traffic or something about a social issue, it’s okay especially if social media is the only way to trace the person you’re trying to pursue.

For instance, I came across a video today that went viral when an elder woman harassed a twenty year old something young lady in a public transportation. In that post, she said that she’s posting it so that she can find that person who harassed her so she can press charges or like at least have her parents talk to that person. So that’s actually something reasonable at least, for me. (or is it not acceptable? Nalilito na ako mamshie)

Then if you rant on your social media or make parinig, I don’t think I get to have a say in it (since I rant so much on twitter) We are all responsible over what we post on social media and if someone calls you out, it’s on you. As for your readers, friends or followers, they can just mute or unfollow, it’s their call.

While writing this, I have contradictions toward my ideas. HALP! What can you say about this issue? Tara let’s discuss! HEHE ❤

 

Inside Aila’s Life Day in Day Out

Why do I write so often? As in everyday, may posts ako siguro 1 to 3 posts a day? How do I do that? Kahit hindi naman ako sikat na blogger sadyang ang dami ko lang sinasabi lagi HAH!

Hi guys! Here are several reasons why I can write so many posts or how I can write daily (except on weekends)

  • I don’t have many friends I can talk to on a daily basis. So I end up writing everything that I could have told a real life person. (sad nu hahaha chos)
  • I think about a lot of random things and I want to share it with other people but I don’t have anyone aside from Kyx and my mama who would listen to all of those random thoughts so I end up writing it here on my blog hehe.
  • I work as an in-house copywriter. I write a whole lot of contents for newspaper, social media, magazine and all that. No one bothers me in the office, not so much. So when I get burned out, I’ll write something using MS Word and people still think I’m working on an article hahahaha ‘kala niyo ang dami kong time ‘no? HAHAHA! ßeto talaga yung reason kung bakit nakakapagsulat ako ng madalas sa blog eh. Sana hindi mabasa ng officemates ko. If mabasa niyo, guys ginagawa ko naman work ko eh. Sadyang need lang ng break daily diba? LELS. Hahaha
  • I am very very quiet in real life. Especially in the office. Backstory: it took me a good 6 months before I warmed up to my officemates. They are very friendly and warm, when I was new here, a lot of other people are also new (so hindi ka ma-OP talaga diba) but I am very distant. I don’t talk to them unless I need to or they need something from me, I don’t eat lunch with them, it’s either I wait for all of them to finish eating before I eat or I wait for Kyx’s lunch break (dati same building kami nung nag-ooffice pa si Kyx) Now, I talk to my officemates and I eat lunch with them. I’m also a bit talkative now but really, I’m a quiet and shy type of person MEHEHE. I only ever unleash my mind and soul here on my blog, dito nabubuhos.
  • I find it hard to speak. I am an awkward person and conversations in real life kinda make me cringe so as best as I could, I communicate with my office mates through chat or emails HAHAAH. So maybe, I write a lot cause this is the only space I have wherein I can talk wholeheartedly? And twitter!!

Is There Something by Christopher Cross

When you guys, as a couple fight about small or petty things, how do you patch things up?

For us, if it’s only me—making a big deal out of him breathing too loudly or smiling in the wrong manner or just being pissed cause I can *rolling eyes*, Kyx pulls out his funny streak and I’d end up laughing. He has this unique antics prepared for when I turn into a monster or something. One of it is playing a “patama” song while I’m brooding over things that are not even brood-worthy.

Ganito yan…

One of his favourite songs to play when I’m acting up is a song by Christopher Cross called Is There Something.

When I’m mad, pissed, upset or irritated with him he’d blast this off and I would be all like “what the actual fuck?” then he’ll smile and laugh at me. I’d go laughing and I’d forget why I’m even mad in the first place.

Sobrang gago diba? Pinapatugtog niya yan kapag napipikon na ako sakanya eh di natatawa tuloy ako. WTF hahahaha. Here’s how the chorus goes:

“Is there something that you want to tell me

Is there something that I ought to know

Are we something that’s still worth fighting for

Or should I simply let you go

Is there something I can do to reach you

Are we something more than history

I’ll find some way to convince you to stay

If you just tell me honestly

Is there something left of you and me

Nagegets niyo ba ginagawa niya? Nakakatawa kasi eh. Nagdadrama. Bigla nalang niya ‘yang papatugtugin kapag nag-aattitude ako so siyempre natatawa nalang ako, nagbabati tuloy kami ng wala sa oras hehehehe. However, he only does this kapag alam niyang kaya niya. Minsan kasi, super monster ako tawag niya doon ay “auto-demon” kaya kapag auto-demon ako, hindi niya yan magagawa. Hahaha.

Listen to the song. It’s an old one hehehe. ❤

Update!

  • I added a new menu thingy on my blog, it says “Everyday Reads” and there I (and will) put the links of the blogs I read every day. If you are interested in checking out their blogs, go see the “Everyday Reads” page. I added it because it’s hard for me to keep track of the blogs I read every day, as in I go to the “following” page wherein I get to see the people I follow and then get the URLs and then copy paste it. Hayy. I don’t know any other way to have a link to their page so I made something like this haha. I also need to fix it soon or edit it cause the last time I checked, some links are not clickable. *sigh*
  • I am also planning to add a category wherein I decipher song lyrics hah!
  • I want to have my weekend updates back again but I’m still thinking about it. Some weekends are fun but some aren’t. Nonetheless, maybe I’ll write about it anyway. Let’s see.
  • I wrote a lot of stuff but all are unfinished. I also ran out of scheduled posts now so maybe I’ll work on writing tonight.
  • What else do I have to say? Oh! Listen to Tired (Kygo Remix) ! I just learned of that song yesterday and I can’t stop singing it since then hah!

Awards, Awards, Awards!

 

The Unique Blogger Award

The Rules:

  • Kindly thank the person who nominated you!
  • Answer the 3 questions asked by the person who nominated you.
  • Nominate 8-13 bloggers for this award!
  • Ask the people you nominated 3 questions.

The Versatile Blogger Award & One Lovely Blogger Award (both have the same rules so 14 facts about yourself in total if you want hehe)

The Rules:

  • Thank the person who nominated you!
  • Share 7 facts about yourself.
  • Nominate 10 other bloggers of your choice.
  • Link your nominees and let them know you nominated them!

Thank you Hunida for nominating me. I am happy that you are one of the most genuine people I have met here on wordpress and I hope we always stay in touch ❤

The 3 Questions from Hunida:

  1. If you could live one week in someone else’s shoes who would you choose?
  • Oh this is hard. Uhm, maybe I’ll try
  1. Do you brush your teeth in the shower or do you think that’s extremely weird?
  • I brush my teeth before I hit the shower. Does that make sense? I also tried brushing my teeth while showering and I have no excuse as to why I did it but I did HAHAHA.
  1. Describe your handwriting. Is it big or small? Do you write in cursive, print, or a mix of both? Do you write in all caps or no caps?
  • It’s in print and my proper handwriting (like if I’m in no hurry) it’s like italicized or something.

14 Things About Me:

  1. I have OCD, Anxiety and Depression but I’m still alive and a generally happy person.
  2. I like my friends here in wordpress. I like them better than most people I know in real life, to be honest.
  3. I write for a living and it’s not as fun as everyone thinks but I like it anyway.
  4. I have been working on improving myself for the past 5 months and actually loving myself more.
  5. I like thinking about things and it’s both a curse and a gift, I guess. I waste so much time and energy thinking a lot about trivial things or stuff that shouldn’t matter. For the most parts, I benefit from it I guess.
  6. I am an INFJ. It’s a Myers-Briggs personality type meaning I am introverted, I lean more towards Intuition rather than basing it on facts and experience, I lean more on feeling than thinking and I more inclined with my own judgment than perception. Or I can’t explain it so here’s a link: https://www.16personalities.com/infj-personality you can also take the test and see what personality type you have! It’s fun and it’s like putting all the puzzles into place.
  7. I like music, art and reading than being outside and trying out different stuff and going into a lot of adventures. Though I am a bit adventurous sometimes but I prefer the comfort of my home.
  8. I am very trusting and forgiving. For the most parts, it help me sleep well at night. However, it also breaks my heart more often than it should.
  9. I am really very quiet and awkward in person. I come off as rude because of how quiet and shy I can be but once I warm up, you’ll have fun with me. I think it’s very common but in general, I’m really quiet and awkward hahahaha.
  10. It takes so much to make me angry.
  11. My high school crush is now my boyfriend for 3 years! Woot woot!
  12. I think I have a disease wherein I am so addicted with books that I keep buying only to have the unread books piled up. I am trying this thing called finish-everything-first-before-buying-a-new-book. Hahahaha
  13. I lost my high school best friends 24 hours after my birthday, they pitted on me and kicked me out of our group. It was a huge drama and my mom was so mad haha. I am not proud of it but I am happy everything happened the way it did. It broke me, it almost killed me, I almost killed myself but looking back, it taught me so much more that it compensated on all the hurt I felt. I guess I want to include it as a part of “fact about me” because if not for it, I wouldn’t be who I am today.
  14. I love my mom so much. I’d do anything for her.

My 3 Questions:

  1. What is your advice for someone who had a friendship break-up?
  2. Are there any regrets you have? What are those?
  3. What is the most memorable and proudest moment you have in your life?

Nominees:

I nominate you guys (even though I know some of you don’t write or answer things like this but..) because:

  1. I really value whatever you have to say.
  2. I’m interested in knowing you more.
  3. Sometimes, things like these award award keme is fun to do (hehehe)

Gerry – https://gerrytology.wordpress.com/

Ella – https://themetanoiastory.wordpress.com/

Stolen Cap – https://stolencap.wordpress.com/

Space – https://spacekoto.com/

Aubrey – https://misismommymaghapon.wordpress.com/

Eca – https://dungisatibapa.wordpress.com/

Jai – https://jirahlization.wordpress.com/

Chammy – https://chamsicles.wordpress.com/

Lothy – https://skepticalmommyblog.wordpress.com/

Kat – https://thekatalogue.net/

Justine – https://justineparagas.wordpress.com/

Meg – https://nocturnalmomtalks.wordpress.com/

Rhaine – https://mommyrhaine.wordpress.com/

Alona – https://withlovealona.wordpress.com/

Aysa – https://aysabaw.com/

Jolens – https://jumpingjolens.wordpress.com/

Amielle – https://loveamielle.com/

Keira – https://methodtomymelody.wordpress.com/

Krishel – https://iamthatsmallgirl.wordpress.com/

Ica – https://icamontemayor.wordpress.com/

Keso – https://simplysaycheese.wordpress.com/

Kate – https://bequietkate.wordpress.com/

Albert – https://albertsoriano2jc.wordpress.com/

https://dakilanglaagan.wordpress.com/

Jheff – https://shadesofwanderer.wordpress.com/

Zheng – https://zhengfanminimalist.wordpress.com/

CJ – https://cseveneaj.wordpress.com/

I know I exceeded the number of nominees. Sarreh.

Also, do this when you have time. I’m looking forward to it hehehe.

 

August, It Was Such A Blast!

This post was supposed to be posted yesterday but I don’t know why I didn’t schedule it. Hay buhay.

August went by pretty fast, it’s my favourite month but it’s also one of the most challenging for me. I love August because of so many reasons, events and I just feel light, determined and happy everyday no matter how challenging some of my days were.

My August Highlights:

  • On Kyx’s birthday, the first of August, I surprised him with a cake when the clock struck 12. I sang him a happy birthday song and he cried like a baby hahaha. I kept the cake from him and wrapped the box with so many newspaper so he wouldn’t see it hah!
  • Surprised Kyx too for his birthday celeb! I invited our super close friends and we ate at Ippudo. I loved how we enjoyed our favourite food, with our favourite company.
  • Angge’s art show with Crist. I always love art shows that our friends have. Aside from we get to see the art they put so much of their lives into, we get to spend time together. Most of our friends are artists (painters, digital artists, designers) and we rarely see them! Kyx is busy himself with his work as a digital illustrator (check his art out at behance.net/kyx )
  • All the family time we ever did. I love spending time with my Family. My brother who lives and works at UAE went home last August and we got to spend time! It was short but it was definitely sweet.
  • I got to bond with my team at the office in a deeper level. We (were forced to) participate(d) in the Amazing Jeepney Race and our team was asked to play the game. We didn’t like the idea of it but we loved it when we were there trying to enjoy each other’s company.
  • Our many overtimes were spent together and it made the OTs bearable. I guess it’s safe to say that I have friends at the office (already hahaha)
  • Chill hangouts at Kapitolyo. Nothing beats spending time with friends you love the most.
  • Celebrating our anniversary! Kyx and I have been together for 3 years now. From high school friends, to super close friends and now best of friends—I love every single day spent with him.
  • Learned new things, realized a lot and made friends with people in the blogosphere! I have met so many friends here (I consider the people I meet here on my blog as friends. They now me all too well now and I don’t regret anything) the people who have helped me overcoming my painful past—especially Zheng, Lu, Kendall, Anaida, A and my TFIOB family. I love you all!

Overall, August is still and will be my favourite month. It went by so fast so…August, I’ll see you again next year!

 

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Aldwin, Althea, Mama, Atalanta, Aldous (Altheo is not in MNL, he’s in UAE)

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Wacky Family! ❤

Atalanta (little sister), Aaliya (niece), Althea (me), Erin (sis in law), Avril (niece), Alex (niece)

 

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Office BFFs

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Constants ❤

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Artist Friends (Photo from Garu and Camille)

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