Are They Being Sexist or What?

Understanding the comments of other people against Cohabiting.

In addition to my thoughts about cohabiting and all that crap, I read a few articles and saw other people’s comments and my oh my. Hahahahaha I have no words. Here are a few comments of other people on articles about cohabiting and here’s my two cents on the matter.

  • Moms, we shld never let our daughter do this. Sobra naman ang mga guys na ganyan. E kung di niya pakasalan, idu-dump na lng ang pobreng girl!” What in the world? “idu-dump na lang ang pobreng girl!”? (We should never let our daughter do this. What if the guy wouldn’t end up marrying the girl? The poor girl gets dump!”) Excuse me but why does ending a relationship makes a girl KAWAWA or POBRE to begin with? Girls can stand bad break ups. Girls are strong enough to know when to give the fuck up, what makes a girl kawawa when relationship ends? WAY TOO SEXIST. ABOVE AND BEYOND SEXIST.
  • “Hindi sya magandang tignan” what makes a relationship magandang tignan (pleasing to the eyes)? If they are “happily” married? Excuse me but not all those who get married are FREAKING HAPPY. And honestly, what’s with having an appealing relationship What makes it hindi magandang tignan?
  • “Ang babae nirerespeto hindi dahil modern na ngayon dapat magbago na din ang ating paniniwala na okay lang ang live in. Mas maganda pa din na ngssama sila ng kasal na sila.”  (Girls should be respected. It’s modern now but it doesn’t mean that we should change our ways and be open to cohabiting. It’s still way nicer if they get married first before living together) What does respect have to do with all these?

Sometimes, I’ll be silent and would realize why do I even bother? It’s okay to agree to disagree, but I keep seeing comments saying “sana magbreak kayo” or “sana maging babae lahat ng anak mo para malaman mo bakit hindi pwede mag live in” HOHOHO. I have no words.

I get it, maybe it all goes back to sexist issues. It’s all rooted from stupid sexist issues. Does a marriage guarantee love forever? Does a marriage guarantee happiness forever? I think not. Marriage is not some form of security. A lot of other couples get married and still end up wanting to kill each other, end up cheating on each other. So I don’t think marriage is the answer for those who want to cohabit. LOL.

Another thing is I don’t get why “talo ang babae pag naghiwalay sila” what makes a girl a loser? What makes her lesser of a person because a relationship failed? For all I care, women can overcome a heart break just like any other human being. How is a girl TALO?

The only comic relief I got from browsing through the stupid comments were from a guy, intelligent and smart enough to let out what he thinks. Kudos to Kuya! I might just shoot him a message to show him how much I appreciate his intelligence 😀

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Thea, 26, INFJ (Turbulent) Always interested in other people's opinion on matters, ideas and random thoughts. I mostly keep to myself but I found that writing in this blog is easier than bottling my feelings up. Reading, writing, tea, coffee and wine are my favorite things. You can catch me mostly on twitter and instagram: @xoxthea make sure to say hello! :")

4 thoughts on “Are They Being Sexist or What?”

  1. Hi ate, nakita ko rin to sa FB. Natawa na lang din ako sa mga comments at di ko na lang tinuloy yung pagbabasa ko.

    Kami ng boyfriend ko, madalas dito siya natutulog sa bahay, at okay lang din sa parents ko, di ko lang gets kung paano nila nasasabi yung mga bagay na yon. Eh wala naman sila sa sitwasyon na yon.

    Yung point ko lang is (1) kung alam mo naman yung limitations niyo and responsibities, okay naman yung ganong set-up. (2) if ever against yung mga tao sa paligid nyo, anong pake nila di ba?

    Palagi ako nakakarinig ng mga comments galing sa tita ko, lolo ko na bat di pa kami magpakasal eh magkasama naman na kami. Out of respect, di ko nalang pinapansin. Sinasabi nalang ng nanay ko na wag namin pansinin yung mga tsismis at gawin namin lahat para maprove na kahit magkasama na kami as bfgf, eh nagagawa pa rin namin yung role sa mga parents namin.

    Sorry mahaba po. Masyado akong nadala sa mga comments. Pero ano po sa tingin niyo yung way nung pagsagot ni Nadine sa issue? (If napanuod niyo po ung interview) hehe

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    1. Di ko napanood yung interview pero according sa mga articles and nabasa ko parang naririnig ko kung pano nya sinabi yung mga sinabi niya. siguro pangit tono nya and siguro iba yung choice of words nya kesa sa ineexpect from her. To be honest, hindi kasi ako talaga fan ni Nadine, wala akong pake kung pano sya magsalita or kung ano sinasabi nya hahahaha pero marami naaasar sa attitude nya ahahaha. Ikaw ba? 😀

      Thanks din sa comment mo. Mas mahaba mas maganda hahahaha and tama ka! So what diba? Eh kung sinusupport naman ng mga loved ones yung decision nyo, sino ang ibang tao to meddle. Nakakaasar yung mga comments ng ibang tao na akala mo sila lang tama.

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  2. Di rin po ako JaDine fan 😂 pero napanuod ko yung clip, yun nga po parang iba yung tono nung pagsagot niya. Parang “ano naman kung totoo yung issue?” na kulang na lang mag eye-rolls siya sa harap nung nagiinterview ganon. Hahaha! Feel ko nga mataray yun sa personal eh lol. (Luh baka may makabasa na jadine fan, mabash pa ko. XD)

    Anyways, isa rin po yung issue na yun kaya mejo down ako last month, parang naging talk of the town ako. Kahit sa pagbili ko sa tindahan, tatanungin ako kung nagasawa na ba ko etc. Tas parang narindi nalang ako. Hays tsismis is everywhere. Hahahaha!

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